I think
the answer is: There’s a time and a place
for each. A simple answer on paper, of course, but not so simple in
practice.
I’ve
described some of the reasons why flexibility is a hallmark of the practice of
leadership for the YES! Leader. I’ve also noted some of boundaries that must be
placed on the YES! Leader’s flexibility. Today I’d like to address the
question: What are some of the benefits
of consistency?
I think
there are at least three areas in which consistent behavior by a leader is not
only beneficial but essential:
1) Predictability and Safety. Each of us
has probably worked for someone with an erratic personality. He might come
through the door in a calm, laid-back mood one day, screaming and yelling the
next. He may respond to a critical
situation in a level-headed manner, then be set off by a small issue. You never
know exactly “who” this person will be at any given time. This kind of leader
creates an unsafe environment which often causes people to withhold or parcel
out information for fear of the reaction it might provoke. A leader must keep control of his emotions and
reactions in order to maintain a consistent demeanor upon which others can
rely.
2) Trust. In order to build trust with
others, a leader needs to send a consistent message. If she communicates conflicting
opinions and factual characterizations to different people at different times,
or if she fails to follow through on what she says she will do, then she will
quickly undermine her credibility.
Of course,
consistency isn’t a matter of saying “That’s my story and I’m sticking to it” –
no matter what. There may be times when she recognizes the need to vary from a
previous message – say, because she learns new information that indicates the
need for a course change. In that case,
she must openly and honestly acknowledge the variance, explain the reasons
behind the change, and admit to any mistakes on her part.
3) Decision-Making. An effective leader
must have a reliable internal compass – a sense of True North, as the author
Bill George puts it – in order to provide an underlying coherence to his
decisions and actions. If he seems to bend with the prevailing winds when it
comes to making decisions or forming opinions (a syndrome known in the
political world as “flip-flopping”), then people will quickly question whether
he can be depended upon to keep a steady hand on the wheel. (And - to carry the
metaphor one step further – they may well ask: Can his actions and decisions provide
calm in any storm that might be encountered?)
Consistency
doesn’t mean rigidly applying a set of simple rules in a black-and-white manner.
Instead, it means possessing (and living) a firm set of values and principles
that serve as a guideline to dealing with the sometimes gray areas of life.
REFLECTIONS FOR THE YES! LEADER
I’ve
observed the ways in which flexibility is important for the YES! Leader. But consider
the following:
·
Are
you so flexible that you keep people off guard, not quite sure from minute to
minute “who” you are – or how they should interact with you?
·
Do
you sense that people are being less than totally open with you for fear of how
you’ll react?
·
Are
you trying so hard to be everything to everybody that nobody can take what you
say at face value?
·
Can
you point to a set of personal core values that guide your day-to-day (and even
moment-to-moment) decisions and actions?

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