Since those editorial days, my career path has taken a
long and winding road to my current point on the journey. I’ve loved some of
my way stations (such as my current one) and regarded others as nothing more than a (hard) learning
experience. Yet, through it all, that first job has always called out to me, waving from
the distant starting line.
Prompted by my ever-present nostalgic streak, I recently took
a detour from a planned trip and traveled back to the site of that first job –
a place I hadn’t visited since I punched out for the last time many years
before. I had brought along my good camera so that I could snap a picture of the
part of the building where my cube was located. As I drove down the street that
bordered the building, I intended to stop my car by the roadside, adjust my camera,
carefully frame the shot, and capture the view for posterity.
But as I approached the building, I realized that there
was no good place to pull over. Feeling pressed by the traffic bearing down on
me from behind, at the last minute I grabbed my cell phone, stuck it out the
driver’s side window with my left hand, and (keeping my eyes fixed on the road
ahead) took a Hail Mary shot that I hoped would capture at least some of the building.
Given my schedule, I knew that I couldn’t double back to
try again. So I headed back to the main highway, kicking myself for blowing my
only chance and preparing myself to see a fuzzy picture of a ditch by the side
of the road.
So imagine my surprise the next day when I saw the following image in my phone:
There it was: A perfectly
centered, in-focus shot – with the sun forming a halo effect directly over the
part of the building where my cube used to be located.
I can’t say that I found any cosmic significance in the
image that resulted from my point-and-click moment. No, the message for me was
a bit more down-to-earth: That sometimes just letting things take their course can
result in even more amazing outcomes than we could bring forth if we tried to
plan and control everything in advance.
Hmm, on second thought, maybe that is a pretty cosmic message.
REFLECTIONS FOR THE YES! LEADER
One of the hallmarks of an effective improviser is the
ability to give up the need to plan and control what happens next in a performance.
This requires improvisers to trust their fellow performers and to trust that
great things will emerge from the collaborative process.
Here are some questions to consider in your own practice
of YES! Leadership:
·
To what extent do you try to control every
outcome – including the actions of the people who might generate those
outcomes?
·
What would happen if you just “let go” and lived
with some discomfort for a bit while things (and people) took their natural
course?
·
When things don’t go according to plan, do you
anticipate the worst? Or do you keep yourself open to the possibility that things
might work out even better than you could have planned?

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